ca. 1870’s, [tintype portrait of a man cradling his dog]
via Cowan’s Auctions
here’s my sweet spot! tintype, human and dog, great composition
ca. 1870’s, [tintype portrait of a man cradling his dog]
via Cowan’s Auctions
here’s my sweet spot! tintype, human and dog, great composition
When Strangers Click, a 2011 documentary about online dating.
It reminds me of that famous Margaret Atwood quote: “Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them.” It also reminds me of something written by one of the mods of Sex Worker Problems: “Misandry irritates. Misogyny kills.”
I mean, it’s just true.
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“Misandry irritates. Misogyny kills.”
That’s it. That’s it right there.
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also that Louis C.K. bit in his stand up about how utterly insane it is for a woman to ever “date” a man, it’s tantamount to a death wish whereas for the man it’s like oh, I hope she doesn’t not like me
Pawel Jonca. The Seed.
Eugenia Loli. Physics of Entrapment.
I’m hopelessly in love with coffee
Story of my life. Just me and my coffee, chilling out in my kitchen.
plus it smells good
(Source: eathealthytrainhard)
I’m hopelessly in love with coffee
Story of my life. Just me and my coffee, chilling out in my kitchen.
plus it smells good
(Source: eathealthytrainhard)
Forgiving yourself is far more challenging than forgiving someone else because you must live with yourself and your thoughts 24/7. Despite the challenge, emotionally healthy people must have the capacity to forgive themselves when they have made a mistake.
When you…
Force yourself to do it, step by step. Finding a way to forgive yourself and forget is the only way to stay sane.
I don’t think anybody was saying having a pet will just “fix” mental illness
Simply that they can be helpful to some people (which they can - my cat is very therapeutic to me)
— Avital
If you are not an “animal person,” obviously this therapy won’t apply. The benefit comes from the empathy you feel from the pet, and the “reason to live” and take care of it that the pet gives you.(Also, for some people, the reassurance and security the pet’s presence gives you in public settings.) If you don’t feel comfortable with a pet, or would be more stressed out by having one, then of course, no “therapy.”. (I have 4 dogs, and that’s too many dogs! In fact, they resulted from hypomania, so animals aren’t always “therapeutic.”) The first dog I had, who was my only dog her whole life, got me through many bad years.Take what you can use, leave the rest!
—- Kathy
This is a summary of the role played by light and dark — and sleep — in bipolar disorder, according to recent research. It’s not too hard to follow. The thing is, it leads to some very simple adjustments — and a gadget or two — that can actually “treat” bipolar disorder (especially rapid-cycling) like medications (in place of, or along with). It is “darkness therapy” rather than light therapy, as in light boxes (which never worked for me personally.) Everybody knows how key sleep is in bipolar disorder (I don’t need to be told!), so this makes a lot of sense. I’m actually more excited about this than about anything else I’ve come across recently in bipolar research. (If you want to skip right to the treatment part, which involves having enough and the right kind of darkness every night at the same time — and can maybe be done with a cheap pair of glasses — go to the end of the article. Then you can retrace the science if you want to.)
—- Kathy
Sonja Vordermaier. Street Lamp Forest.